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SparkDate: Loxley's Fall Social at Loxley's Restaurant & Patio Bar Upcoming Mixer

SparkDate: Loxley's Fall Social

A whimsical treehouse bar unlike anything else in Central Pennsylvania, and it's at its coziest once fall sets in. With Robin Hood–inspired woodwork, a tree growing right through the center, and a heated outdoor bar for crisp October nights, the space is full of charm and character. Add good food and a laid-back atmosphere, and you've got the perfect fall night out for singles who want real conversations with real people, not another swipe.

Date
October 20, 2026
Time
6:30 PM
Venue
Loxley's Restaurant & Patio Bar · Lancaster
Room
35-seat room
Address
500 Centerville Rd, Lancaster, PA 17601Parking is in the large lot out front.
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Good to know

Can I come on my own?

Yes. That is how the night is built. A host checks you in and hands you a name tag, then you sit at a small table with a game to play, so you never have to walk up to a stranger and start from nothing.

How many people come?

A room, not a crowd: small enough to actually talk. Every round at the tables is a new set of people, so by the time the open mingling starts you have already met a good part of the room.

What should I wear?

Smart casual. Think first-date confidence, not job interview: what you would wear to a nice dinner out.

Is there parking?

Parking is in the large lot out front.

What if I don't click with anyone?

It happens, and it's fine: not every room is your room. Your picks at the end are private: nobody sees them, and only a mutual pick becomes a match. And it is still a night out, with a game at the table and a host who makes sure no one is left standing alone.

What if I can't make it?

Tickets aren't refundable, but you're always welcome to transfer yours to a friend if your plans change. To transfer, email [email protected].

What to Expect

This is a singles mixer — not a rigid, timer-driven speed dating format, and not a singles bar either. It's a curated evening designed for adults who'd rather meet in person than keep texting.

  • Your host holds the guest list. Everyone is checked in by name at the door, and every night is 21+ with ID.
  • Trained host on-site. Runs the icebreaker and keeps the rounds moving, so you never have to start or end a conversation cold.
  • Curated venue. Quiet enough to talk, lively enough to flirt.
  • We aim for a balanced gender mix. Not an exact guarantee, but always a priority.

Hosted by SparkDate

Your host has a background in hospitality and member-only clubs — they pick the venue, set the tone, and make sure no one's left standing alone. They're on-site the whole night.

Safety at Events

Your host holds the guest list and checks every guest in at the door, every night is 21+ with ID, and your host is on-site for the entire event. If anything ever feels off — before, during, or after — tell your host directly or email [email protected]. We follow up on every report.

Dress Code

Smart casual. Think first-date confidence — not job interview.

Cancellation Policy

Tickets aren't refundable, but you're always welcome to transfer yours to a friend if your plans change.

Reserve Your Spot

Open spots remaining

Tap one. Then it's just your name, email and card.

Ticket + service fee

We'll send your ticket here, and may send one reminder if you don't finish.

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Coming on your own?

That is how the night is built. A host checks you in and hands you a name tag, then you sit at a small table with a game to play, so you never have to walk up to a stranger and start from nothing.

Real people. Real nights.

What the night looks like

Guests at long tables on the Tellus360 rooftop under string lights, a guest smiling at the camera in front
Tellus360 rooftop, August
Guests standing and talking in a bar room with surfboards on the wall
Drinks and conversation
Guests seated at small patio tables under string lights, talking over a table game
At the tables
  1. Small tables first

    Name tags on, a small table, and a game the host runs. That is the icebreaker, so you never have to walk up to a stranger and start from nothing.

  2. Then open mingling

    Move around the room, get a drink, talk to whoever you want. The host keeps the room moving so no conversation traps you.

  3. Short one-on-ones, then a private note

    At the end you write down who interested you. Nobody sees your picks. If it is mutual, it is a match that same night.

“Everyone was so lively and some of us connected so well we chatted well into the evening.”
Molly
“A Majestic night!”
Helesha
“All the reason you need to delete the dating apps!”
Luke